An investigation may center on one officer. Its uncertainty can reach everyone at the kitchen table.
The Unspoken helps officers and their families prepare for the human side of Internal Affairs, before they have to navigate it.
Written by Veronica Zarzoza, a mental health professional and police wife,
The Unspoken helps officers and their families understand the human side of an Internal Affairs investigation and prepare for challenges they may never have discussed.

The Unspoken By Veronica Zarzoza


The waiting, the difficult conversations, and the worry about what comes next can become part of daily life.
Officers spend years preparing for the demands of policing. Families can still find themselves facing an Internal Affairs process with little understanding of how it may affect their household.
The Unspoken: Facing Internal Affairs, What Officers and Their Families Need to Know brings that often overlooked experience into focus, with practical guidance for approaching uncertainty and supporting the people living through it.
Read it before the conversation becomes urgent.
Build awareness of the first twenty-four hours and the Internal Affairs interview so the process feels less unfamiliar.
Explore the stress and uncertainty that can affect an officer, a spouse, and the family supporting them.
Consider financial stability and social media decisions as part of preparing for the impact on daily life.
Officers and their spouses and families, as well as trainers, supervisors, peer support teams, and support professionals seeking to understand the family side of Internal Affairs.
No. The book encourages preparation before a crisis. It can also serve as a resource for families already navigating the uncertainty of an investigation.
The author combines her perspective as a mental health professional with her lived experience as a law enforcement spouse.

For officers, spouses, families, and the professionals who support them.
Understand what to expect, recognize decisions that deserve careful attention, and prepare for the strain an investigation can bring to work and home.
Gain perspective on the uncertainty your loved one is facing and explore ways to maintain communication, offer support, and address concerns together.
A resource for supervisors, trainers, and peer support professionals seeking to understand how an investigation can affect the entire household.
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